Some of the self-commands

Defining something is the first step to achieving it. Overtime I have made some self-commands - these are of course work in progress ( always will be !) and only some of them.

I will choose 'fearless' over 'popular'

I will follow my heart and value my 'values'

I will live my life according to those values 

I will admire people who are worth it

I will be careful of energy vampires

I will watch myself when I am jealous and take myself out of that place almost instantly

I will pay genuine compliments anywhere and everywhere I feel someone is deserving

I will freely admit I am wrong

I will not stop questioning the status quo and thinking deeper

I will surround myself with inspirational people

I will cut down on 'social friends' and choose to be with the real ones

I will choose 'right' over 'safe'

I won't whine and cry but choose to do something to resolve

I won't seek external motivation but seek it internally

I won't stay put - I won't stagnate